I've been having an ongoing debate with a guy I've been seeing(by this i mean going out for dinner,drinks and a movie once or twice)on whether it was time to take things to the next level or not.The thing is am at a stage in my life,where if I feel like we aren't connecting on a very basic level,if we cant have a basic conversation,then we haven't established enough intimacy to get together in such a personal way.Back to this guy lets call him Mr M.every time we would go out and more often than not I would go home pissed because of all the pressure he would heap on me to go to his house.We couldn't even watch a movie in peace without him trying to get all busy with me(refer to my blog on licking ears).
It reached a point where he got so insistent that I began to doubt myself and my decision.But then I got an epiphany and realized that I was right,you ought to be able to sit down with your potential lover and have a random conversation on anything under the sun.You ought to know your potential lover so well that one look at their face and you can almost tell what they are thinking,you can tell what their mood is.You need to establish a level of caring and intimacy with your potential lover before you take it to the next level,kwanza with all the diseases flying around....Ama?
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